Well, it can be blind but you are not THAT blind to judge whether or not you should be dating married women.
Maybe you would date a married woman, depending on the situation.
This is sort of Part II concerning single people having affairs with married people and why.
Recently, I wrote about why single women have affairs with married men.
While you are going head over heels for her, have you thought about the consequences that you might face? You would not want the husband come chasing after you, would you? Don't get touchy with her - She is married and she already has a husband to take care of.
Most married women are not looking for long-term relationship. She doesn't want to get to know you too well or to listen to you blabbing about your problems.
If you're about to have an affair with a married woman, think twice. But many lesbians are left out in the cold when it all falls apart and the "straight" woman stands by her man. Get connected to a great therapist, counselor or coach who can help you navigate the decisions that will lead you to the great life and love you deserve.
So the married woman/single man coupling is the more rare circumstance. Why do some single men have affairs with married women? Unlike most women, single men often love having access to someone who is passionate, sexual and really wants nothing more from them. The goal of dating for married people is far different from dating among the singles. This is the most apparent reason why they willingly throw themselves out there.
On a purely physical level, most men are going to enjoy their affairs with married women. You’re unlocking a woman full of sexual desire who is not getting her needs met at home, so of course the one night (or many nights) of sex is going to be unbelievably great. You don’t need to meet the parents and you won’t miss a single bowling night out with your buddies. But for married people who are already committed, they are just out to seek solutions to their unmet emotional and/or sexual needs.
From my perspective, this is a more rare circumstance than the single woman with the married man. I have yet to get an email from a single man who is involved with a married woman asking me for help, pining out the problems in his affair, or just to vent. But I get emails from women all the time who are involved with married men, concerning their issues, frustrations and questions.
Plus, I think there are not that many married women who are seeking a mostly sexual affair with a single man (which is what most of them turn out to be). The married woman who has an affair usually does it because she’s fallen for someone else, single or otherwise.
Maybe he's not paying attention to her and she's lonely.