The porn star says she 'kicked well-intentioned Sam to the curb' because, like people in most professions, she needed to draw a line between what she did for a living and who she was in her personal life.'There are a few rules for dating a sex worker,' writes Andre, sharing: 'Don't compromise their cash flow by driving away their business; never out them to other people without their consent; and don't expect them to eagerly perform activities they normally get paid to do for free.' As her career progressed, Andre says things got even harder, with guys she dated making assumptions about her childhood, how much money she made, or 'feeling entitled to be with me because they'd watched some of my porn scenes and therefore "knew" me'.
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